Midlife Women Deserve to THRIVE! The Power Of Your Own Permission Slip
Hello, my amazing midlife women! Remember those school permission slips that got you out of class? Pure magic, right? Well, ladies, it's time to create a new kind of permission slip – one that gives you the freedom to take back your life and career.
So, let's have a heart-to-heart about the incredible power of writing your own permission slip.
I know exactly what some of you are thinking right now. "Dawn, I can't just give myself permission to change everything. I've got responsibilities. I've invested years in my current path."
But here's the REAL truth that lights me up inside, ladies!
You are more powerful, more capable, and more deserving of an extraordinary life (and career!) than you've ever allowed yourself to believe. These voices of doubt? They're just stories we've been told – or worse, stories we've told ourselves. And it's time to rewrite that narrative, one bold permission slip at a time!
The Silent Struggle of Midlife Women
I can't tell you how many times I've heard brilliant, accomplished women say, "I wish..." followed by a dream that feels just out of reach:
“I wish I had more time for myself/my family/my workouts/my hobbies/my friends."
"I wish I had the courage to pursue my passion."
"I wish I could set better boundaries at work."
"I wish I could change careers."
Sound familiar? These are all signals that something's missing.
And here's the truth bomb…
No one is coming to hand you the life you want.
And let me be crystal clear, ladies! These whispers aren't a weakness. They're your soul's internal GPS, pointing you toward something more authentic, and more fulfilling. Every single one of those "I wish" statements is a powerful invitation to transformation.
Most midlife women I work with have spent decades putting everyone else first – nurturing families, supporting colleagues, meeting endless expectations. You've been the superhero in everyone else's story, often writing yourself into the margins. But now? Now is your time to become the hero of your own story. It’s time to finally listen to those wishes and embrace your untapped potential, your unsung strengths, your deepest, most courageous self waiting to be unleashed!
Midlife Women: Who's Really in Control?
Let me ask you something. Who are you waiting for to give you the green light to pursue your dreams? Your boss? Your spouse? Your kids? Society? Newsflash, ladies! You are the ONLY one who can write that permission slip. Take that in and really think about all of that power that YOU hold in your life.
Soak it up, ladies! Really understand that YOU can give yourself permission to change things. You don’t have to have anyone else’s approval. . . truly.
Can we shift gears for a second and talk about how incredible midlife is? You've got decades of wisdom, experience, and insight under your belt. You know yourself better than ever before. Yet, so many midlife women are still playing small, still putting everyone else's needs before their own. I see you. And I'm here to tell you – it's time to step into your power!
Think about it… You've navigated complex relationships, survived professional challenges, raised families, endured hardships and loss, and reinvented yourself countless times. Each of those experiences has been a masterclass in resilience, strategy, and self-discovery. And all of those moments were advanced training for this EXACT moment of transformation.
The world tries to sell you a narrative of limitation, but I see something entirely different. I see a generation of women who are finally ready to stop apologizing, to stop dimming their light, to stop waiting for permission. YOUR midlife isn't about slowing down – it's about breaking free, rewriting rules, and showing the world exactly what you're made of!
Crafting Your Personal Permission Slip
A true permission slip from yourself might sound like:
"I give myself permission to prioritize my well-being."
"I approve of my own career transition, even if it feels scary."
"I'm allowed to say ‘no’ to things that don't align with my values."
"My dreams are valid, and I deserve to pursue them."
If it feels good, write it down. And you can even sign it! Really take it in and KNOW that this is your permission to change something in your life, likely something you’ve been wanting to change for a long time
Breaking Free: A Permissions Roadmap for Midlife Women
Alright, ladies. Here's my tried-and-true approach to writing your own permission slips!
Make sure you grab a journal and a pen and really dig DEEP here.
1. Identify Where You Feel Stuck in Your Career
Where do you feel powerless?
What dreams have been collecting dust?
Which of your core values are being compromised?
2. Design Your Own Empowerment Blueprint
What would make you feel confident and in control?
What boundaries are non-negotiable?
What changes would reignite your spark?
What conversations are needed to establish your position?
THIS is where the magic happens. This is where midlife women start to reclaim their narrative!
3. And Finally, Take Bold Action
Start small if you need to!
Write down your permission slips (yes, physically write them!)
Begin implementing them, one courageous step at a time.
The Ripple Effect of Self-Permission
Here's something beautiful I've witnessed time and again: When midlife women give themselves permission to thrive, something extraordinary happens. You're not just transforming your own life – you're creating a ripple effect. You become a beacon of possibility for other women.
You show the world that midlife isn't about slowing down. It's about stepping into your most powerful, authentic self.
A Personal Challenge for Midlife Women
I want you to do something radical today. Pull out a piece of paper and write yourself a real permission slip. Make it official. Make it meaningful. Make it yours.
You are not asking for permission – you are giving permission. To yourself. To live fully. To pursue your dreams. To thrive.
Know that every time a midlife woman truly steps into her power, she rewrites the narrative for generations to come. Think about the women who came before you, who were told to shrink, to be quiet, to stay small. And now, here you are, breaking those chains! Your children see you. Your grandchildren will be inspired by you. Your colleagues will be transformed by your courage!
When you give yourself permission to shine, you create a POWERFUL invitation for other women to do the same. It's like dropping a stone in a still pond… the ripples extend far beyond what you can immediately see. Your permission slip shatters glass ceilings, challenges societal expectations, and proves that midlife is not a sunset, but a spectacular, blazing sunrise of possibility.
The Truth About Midlife Potential
Listen, I know the world sometimes tries to tell midlife women that their best years are behind them. But I'm here to call BS on that narrative. Your potential is not defined by your age – it's defined by your willingness to show up for yourself.
It's NEVER too late! Your next chapter is waiting, and you have the absolute power to write it exactly how you want.
Are you ready to sign your permission slip?
I’m Dawn LaRae, and I help mid-life professional women gain clarity and confidence in their next career chapter so they can experience passion and purpose in their work.
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